Frenship--fragile if nt taken well care of

After a lengthy period of consideration, i had come to a conclusion. Some people whom we know, and regarded as frens, are actually not frens in reality. Why? Just simply one thing that can differentiate a fren from a school mate/classmate, the former bothers abt u, the latter not so. I can tell who r those whom r frens, and those whom are nt, and maybe nt so worthy to be called frens. Sad, but true, they seemingly doesnt have any interest in ur comments, and maybe doesnt bother abt ur existence. Maybe one day when u r gone(migrated or what lah), they may feel not much difference b/w the past and present.

Alright, i am quite disappointed, cos i already identified one. maybe we shldnt ask sth in return when lending a helping hand when others r in need, but sometimes, when we r deprived from the basic care and concern when we most needed them, we expect those whom we had cared for when they most needed us, to shower the same concern on us when we r down. That is human nature, isnt it? when our expectation of such person doesnt fulfill, we will be disappointed, and when come to a point, prepare to lose the frenship if such situation holds for too long.

To that person in mind, u r absolutely a great companion in the past, but i had been disappointed, nt becos u had done sth wrong, but becos i expect too highly from u. Nt ur fault, nt mine too, i supposed all r nt fated.